We don't have sex. He is always angry, easily becomes a shouting, emotional mess. Always talking about himself, seems uninterested in my life. We don't go on dates anymore, we fight all the time. I feel lonely, disconnected. I am a very loving, fun person but it's been so much work with so little reward I feel like I'm losing myself. We just found out he has Aspies and I'm very Nuero Typical. I want to make this work, but we seem to live on different planets. Help!!
Read books. As many as you can about aspergers. I don’t know for sure if my husband has aspergers, I suspect he does, but since I started reading books about it it has helped us (me) know how to live with him in a healthier way.