Just read through your blog - just discovered this site - what a find!
I'm 37, reaslized I was aspie 2 yrs ago - husband is also aspie, and this is causing HUGE communication probs - but loads of what you have said makes sense now - he gets in a strop - like - very extreme anger, and I cant get through to him. It will be something small sets him off, and then he can barely speak for hours, cant eat, rages and rant - often that "you don't love me" and comes up with everything I have done for the past 10 years to offend him - like he is reliving it all.
So now I know why maybe it will be easier to cope with - if I don't take it so personally!
Just wanted you to know its not just mums with kids you are helping by "rambling" - there are alot of older people out there just beginning to come to terms with something thats been holding them back for years!! your helping us all!!!
Keep on at it, and thanks
So Lara you are taking Med Lab Technology.then? Excellent.Med Lab and Chem. Eng.are offered together for first year here in Canada.Very interesting course of study i might add.:)Continued success in your studies.