We've been together for 31 yrs, married 12 of those. We have two children, one being a 20 yr old son that has asperger.I've always known something was off with my husband since were kids but have learned to just deal with it because I love him. However, over the last decade I've found it becoming increasely difficult to deal with. This year being the hardest.Some of his behaviours:He is the ideal husband in the following ways:Helps around the house, ie. Laundry, dishes, kids ect.Works full timeEveryone loves him, thinks he is a great guyHe is a huge people pleaser even at the risk of jeopordizing our relationshipHe has no clue how to be sauve/charming or witty.He doesn't catch on to sarcasism or make male friends easily. They get bored of him and move on.He doesn't know how to make me feel special even though I know deep down he cares.He only thinks about himself and doesn't think about how it will make me look by his actions.This is just a small list above and I almost packed my bags and left during summer but we have a 14 yr old daughter that is keeping me here. He doesn't have all of the traits, only some of them but he is definately slow when you compare him to the normal guys. I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I'm drowning by myself.
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